I heard my dad go outside i didn't realize that he was waiting for them in his car. they showed up at almost 1:30 and he saw them for about 10 mins.
My cousin Carol had been ready to come here since 9am it seems no one else was motivated to see their uncle/brother.
From what I heard my aunt wanted to use our shower and well if they would have gotten here early she could have and only when my dad said he had to leave for work she wanted to know if i was home so she could shower. He told her I wasn't home cus honestly i didn't want to see brandee or michelle my aunt or carol i really have no issue with.
If i would have known these assholes were only gonna be here for 10 mins i would have told carol the night before to spend the night so she could spend time with my dad. I mean we have more than enough beds to sleep in.
I guess since nothing was really in it for them to visit my dad they were not motivated to get up and get here early enough to actually visit with him.
Shit like this pisses me off.

My dad left for work at 1pm. His sister, nieces and great niece never showed up.
I guess only when something is in it for them they haul ass to get somewhere.

as i said on my twitter all this anticipation and tension for nothing sounds like an ex boyfriend of mine... pretty sad... eh.

I do feel bad for my dad though this is his ONLY family and they are pretty much the scum of the earth (except for Carol she's not like her sisters)

ok well dad said today that his sister and my cousins are coming tomorrow.... OK... he never told us how long they were staying so I called Kelly and told her that I'd have to unfortunately not come watch the kids tomorrow because i had no idea of what would happen would they stay would they go... what.

OK my mom were in the kitchen putting stuff away from the weekend the chip/dip bowl the different platters and pickle bowls and all that stuff. and we were talking about them coming.
all of a sudden the front doorbell rings. we froze then we walked to our living room kinda peaked around the entertainment center to look out the window a bit the big ass RV was in the circle we both pretty much said "fuck".
 then the doorbell rang again and i said uum we HAVE to answer the door they know we are in here.
so i went to answer the front door but no one was there and there was knocking on the back door. My mom got the door.
My cousin Carol walked in and no one followed her. (which was refreshing)
I haven't seen carol since i was 18 and down in fla.
She said they were in the area and she had to stop by even though they are coming tomorrow. They were driving their old neighborhoods and stuff from when they lived up here in chicago. I guess they had kinda got lost and Michelle who was driving found 25th ave (which i live close to) she knew where she was once she was on 25th.
Carol walked downstairs to see our basement. She hasn't been in our house in 20 years my Grandma was still alive when she was here last. My cousins had come up for christmas to surprise my grandma 20 years ago Michelle came with her son he was only maybe 3 at the time or something.
That was a good christmas even though they showed up on our doorstep christmas eve lol they even had presents from Santa to open christmas morning. (this was really b4 all this bad blood really got goin)
 We talked to carol a bit more then her phone rang it was Michelle telling her that if she wanted to stay they would come back to pick her up. Carol had mentioned them coming in to say hello to me and my mom but michelle made some excuse about not wanting to come in cus she hadn't showered today and that they'd be here tomorrow.
THEN we found out that Michelle's daughter Brandee is with them... she's the bitch that stole my mom's makeup out of her makeup bag in the bathroom.
Carol told us that she has to work on thursday so they will probably leaving right after they visit my dad...... SO i didn't really HAVE to stay home tomorrow but since i had to give kelly an answer early  I had to be better safe than sorry. Unless things change and crap changes from now til sometime tomorrow.

I just wanted to keep ya'll in the loop but i have to say my mom and i both hiding behind our entertainment center cus i saw the RV was pretty fucking hysterical.

I found out my Aunt (my dad's sister) and as far as i know only two of my older cousins are coming up here.
one(Carol) I have no problem with the other(Michelle) started a fight with me the last time she was here about 5 years ago.
Michelle stood in my kitchen screaming at me saying it was MY fault her family had a bad time in chicago. and it was MY fault she didn't get to visit with HER Uncle Tom (my dad) *uuum she made no attempt to do anything with my dad when he was home in the afternoons*
well they only came here for a free fucking place to stay they had no intention of visiting with us.
this was also confirmed by her daughter Brandee who felt the need to IM me and try to insult me and make sure she told me that was the ONLY reason they lowered themselves and stayed at OUR house.
After that my mom told my dad she didn't want these people in her house ever again.

I guess my aunt cookie got a 25ft RV and they are coming up here. I am not a happy camper.
My mother is not a happy camper.
For one they are coming this weekend or whatever well we are busy this weekend and already have people staying here (my aunt wants to know where she can park this RV my mom said not in OUR driveway).
Friday we are having the baby shower and now saturday we are having wings which means more people in our house.
who knows when they are showing up. My mom is pissed off like nobody's business.
I guess my Aunt just said they were coming without even asking him about it first. My father does not know how to tell them no. But let me ask him something and he says no right away go fuckin figure.

The last time Michelle and Brandee were here (not sure brandee is coming) but brandee stole stuff out of my mothers make up bag.
and she stole my tampons. Ok it's just tampons but this bitch decided to steal them.
My mother has said after they were here they were NEVER allowed back into this house.

I always stuck up for my cousins. all my life i'd get upset when i heard my mom say bad crap about them and i'd stick up for them.
after Michelle blew up at me I changed my tune. I have no respect for her or her mooch ass family. I would be glad if i never heard from these fuckers again. Actually i would welcome that.
My cousin annette is a crack whore and her daughter cecile is following in her footsteps I posted about cec b4 in the "cecilie drama"
These people are fucking worthless. honestly I never EVER thought i would ever say that about them they are my older cousins and i always looked up to them. I practically idolized them when i was young even though they got me in trouble had me smoke cigs so i wouldn't tell on them anymore Michelle was the first person to get me high when i was like 11 or 12.

I was so looking forward to thanksgiving and everything but this puts a damper on the whole thing. Not know when these assholes are going to show up.

ok today was interesting.
as you all who read my blog know i do take care of my grandma some days. and i have to get up very very early in the morning to be there. Well today since my cousin is here in chicago she had to come with me. My mom didn't want her to be alone here all day. I had told her this b4 that she would have to go with me and i would be getting her up b4 6am.
well this morning i got up took my shower and figured i'd let her sleep a little longer so i TRIED waking her up at 10 to 6am. i figured since we didn't have to leave til 6:15 that it would be long enough to wash up clean teeth and change clothes. well i went down and tried to get her up. she rolled over and muttered something so i went back upstairs and gave her a couple more mins. well i came back down she said i've never gotten up this early in my life so i said well there is a first for everything.
and then she said as i was going back upstairs if i was at home i could sleep all day... and to that i said well you aren't at home so she said so i've noticed and something about her wanting to go home i said that could be arranged. and went back upstairs so she put pants on and proceeded to get on the phone and make phone calls LOUDLY (mind you my brother's bedroom is downstairs next to the family area where the pull out couch is, where she's sleeping at the moment, and he's sleeping. our extra room hasn't even been started to be put together) so it's now 5 after 6am and i go downstairs and say c'mon cec we have to go she's still bitching into the phone and not moving. so i go back upstairs to get the rest of my stuff for the day ready cus i have better shit to do than babysit and make sure she gets off her ass.
well at 10 after i go down and say C'mon i want to leave in 5 mins. to that she says i have to brush my teeth (she's STILL on the phone) i go back upstairs she never comes upstairs and is STILL on the phone even more loud now. since i can hear her up the stairs talking. so now it's 20 after and still nothing i tell her LET'S GO, I HAVE TO LEAVE. so it's now 25 after and she walks up the stairs and has a cigarette and sits outside i grab my stuff walk out lock the door and say lets go she says i can't smoke in the car so i said i don't care get in the car. so now it's late and i am late and not happy. i am speeding off to myaunts house and not saying two words to her i am just watcing the road and the clock.
she tried t omake some conversation i think i just said uh huh and yea and that was it. well needless to say i was at least 10 mins late. My aunt wasn't at home so i don't know how long my grandma was alone which she really should not be left alone at ALL. my aunt is in the process of packing and moving so there really isnt much in her house she has a couch and a loveseat upstairs so we get in i check on gram who is thankfully still sleeping. she said well what do i do i said um sit down and get comfortable. well she proceeds to go to sleep and slept til 2:30 this afternoon.

I am still pretty angry about this morning. from what i understood (from my brother whom she woke up screaming in the morning on the phone) that she wanted to go home no matter what it took. she had already called my aunt twice yesterday saying there was nothing to do in this town. well i live like 20 mins from downtown chicago while maybe my town next door to the airport is a little boring but i can assure you where i live is pretty close to pretty much everything goin on.

I am not here to be her 24 hr entertainment. I am 29 years old i don't have to entertain a 15 year old kid constantly. if she can't read a book watch some tv or whatever then that's her problem. we aren't here to cater to her. we understand it's gong to take some adjustment on all of our parts. as only adults living here for the longest time everyone does their own thing. I am a homebody i spend time in my room watching tv, chatting online and reading. My mom is a homebody too but she spends her time in the living room she does her stuff she does her laundry and watches her tv shows.

my brother is hardly ever home. and my dad works nights so he's not home at night til the weekends.

If things progress like this she will be going home very early. My mom had even said she would pay for the ticket change herself if she had to.

My family in fla is really messed up (cec's mom and her mom's sister namely) They are my cousins but i feel really nothing but pity for them. Cec's mom is a drug addict who cec is living with at the moment (who she shouldn't be living with she should be living with my aunt who has legal custody of her) and a couple of my other cousins in fla cec's aunt and cousin i had issues with when they visited last year after thanksgiving. so now i have no use for those two ever again. in my eyes i could care less about them. they did things they shouldn't have done, so even my mother wants nothing to do with them ever again. so coming from those kinds of role models you can see where this kid might have issues adjusting to a normal family yanno.

I just don't know what to do cus i was the one who always stuck up for my family down there. and after my experiance last year i just have lost all faith in them. cus to me it was like they were biting the hand that always supported them and stuck up for them.

i am sure i will keep ya'll updated on what happens in the next few weeks since this is one of the very few outlets i do have for venting.